Between love and truth - the inner coming out
Dennis came out late - not because he wasn't sure about his feelings, but because he was still with a woman at the time. He loved her, but deep down he knew that he fancied men. For a long time, he tried to suppress this part of himself. But it cost him strength, energy - and, in the long run, his zest for life.
Why coming out is liberating - no matter when
"Not coming out means constantly fighting against yourself," says Dennis. Only when he accepted himself was he able to be open about his identity. Looking back, he is convinced that coming out is an important step - not only for himself, but also for his relationships with others.
Dennis coming out shows:
Even though he was in a relationship with a woman, Dennis felt that he was suppressing something - his own truth. In this video, he talks openly about the long inner struggle, the courage to accept himself and why his coming out was a liberating experience.
More on the topic of coming out
Coming out is a big step for many people - regardless of their age. It can take courage, but it also brings freedom, clarity and often a new sense of self-determination.
You are not alone: many people have similar experiences to Rolf. And there is support available - whether you are just thinking about coming out or are already in the middle of the process.
On mycomingout.com you will find tips, personal stories, counselling services and information about coming out.
Need someone to talk to?
Whether before, during or after coming out - sometimes it helps to talk to someone.
Use the Gay Health Chat - the button at the bottom right will accompany you on the page. There you get anonymous and free of charge:
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