Fists

Unimaginable for some, perhaps the greatest sexual satisfaction for others: having a fist up your arse. This is called fisting (from the English: fist = fist).

The active part is the fister, the passive part is called fistee. In addition to fisting at home, fisting parties are also very popular within the fetish scene.

What can happen

The anus can be exercised like any other muscle and can be stretched gently and carefully. However, too rapid penetration and/or forceful movements can lead to an anal fissure, a tear in the anal mucosa.

At sex parties, the use of new gloves is important for every new partner. Because when fisting, it is relatively easy to get Hepatitis C an infection that is transmitted exclusively via blood. Even the smallest, invisible quantities are often sufficient for this.

A transfer from HIV is theoretically conceivable with this type of game, but rather unlikely.

What matters

Approach fisting slowly and with a partner you trust.
The right environment is important so that you feel comfortable as a passive partner and can really relax.
Use new gloves for each partner you fist.
At a sex party, only use one personal lubricant for each partner. For example, write their names on the lube pot.
Drugs should be a taboo for the active partner so that they don't lose control and possibly hurt the passive partner.
For some Fistee, consciousness- or pain-reducing Drugs to this. In addition to poppers, this is primarily ketamine - a painkilling anaesthetic. Too high a dose of ketamine can be life-threatening.