BDSM (SM for short) stands for "Bondage & Discipline, Domination & Submission, Sadism & Masochism" and is the largest sexual fetish area. It is all about submission, domination, pain and reward.
Unimaginable for some, perhaps the greatest sexual satisfaction for others: having a fist up your arse. This is called fisting (from the English: fist = fist).
While the casual term "threesome" was found for sex in threesomes, the language creators found it too much from the fourth person onwards. Now it's simply called group sex.
Never heard of golden showers or golden showers? In the scene, people also tend to talk about pissing. This sexual fetish is about either pissing on your partner or being pissed on and feeling subjugated.
The fact is: drugs are sometimes an issue in the gay scene - whether at an S&M party or in a club. Only the substances may differ. Especially in the fetish scene, it is important that one of the play partners keeps a clear head.
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