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Gay sex

From the communities for the communities: Read personal stories and experiences from different people about darkrooms, fetishes, online dating or "how to" anal rinsing.

My path in chemsex: one-way street into the sunset

Mein Weg im Chemsex: Einbahnstraße in den Sonnenuntergang

Chemsex was an important part of Karl Anton Gerber's sexuality for a short but very intense period. He also managed to quit using with the help of the book "Lust, Men, and Meth" by David Fawcett. He was so enthusiastic about the book that he translated it into German. Jörn Valldorf spoke to him for our blog.

Darkroom characters: The catfish

Darkroom-Charaktere: Der Wels

Our author describes a type of man he repeatedly encounters in Berlin's darkrooms.

Darkroom characters: The stalker

Darkroom-Charaktere: Der Hinhalter

Do you always encounter guys with the same behavioural patterns in darkrooms?

Grindr characters: Faker

Grindr-Charaktere: Faker

Our author describes why you should be careful when choosing your sex dates.

Gay girls

Schwule Mädchen

Before our author came out as trans, she lived as a gay man. That's why she still has a lot in common with the gay community and her experiences still influence her on sex dates today.

Sex and language

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Our author reflects on the perhaps not so high art of talking while fucking and wonders why there is often such a theatre like in porn before, during and after.

Clean laundry

Saubere Wäsche

Sex can get pretty dirty - in the truest sense of the word.

Cruising in the gym

Cruising im Fitnessstudio

Our author simply wanted to relax in the sauna after doing sport.

Grindr and my obsession with it

Grindr und meine Obsession damit

Our author spends too much time on Grindr and wonders why.

Hanging out - in seventh heaven on the Sling

Abhängen – im siebten Himmel auf der Sling

Will someone take me? That's what our author asks himself in the sex swing.

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Sexual orientation

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Fetish

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Codes

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Cruising

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Anal irrigation

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Toys

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Sex positions

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Porn

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Potency

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Gay. Trans*. Part of the scene

Darkroom characters: The catfish

Go to the test

Acceptance in the scene

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