"With the partner"
Kurt (62) from Zeitz
I've been living with my partner for eight years. We got married four years ago. Many couples just sleep in the same bed after such a long time, but nothing happens. With us, however, it does. We regularly have sex with each other, but also with other men - sometimes together, sometimes each for himself. That spices up our sex life. It doesn't matter whether it's men we meet online, in the park, at a sex cinema or on the flap.
But when we invite someone over, we expect more than just lying down and holding out our hole. For us, sex includes kissing, tenderness, licking and rimming as well as a hot blowjob.
As a single
"Everyone gets old sometimes. At least if you're lucky!"
Julio (66) from Cologne
Why so many gay men have a problem with getting older is a mystery to me. Maybe it's because they're so cock-obsessed and think that at some point they won't be able to get any more blokes.
I still have sex and find it much more intense than when I was younger. One reason for this is that sympathy is the deciding factor for me. Another is that I like men with experience.
But sometimes I'm also looking for a kick: I regularly fly to Gran Canaria to go naturist. I feel free in the dunes of Maspalomas and enjoy the fact that others feel the same way. Age doesn't play such a big role there.
I stopped going to bars a long time ago. They're all giraffes: first they stick their necks out and then you look at them and they bury their heads in the sand. Unfortunately, the scene has been ruined by the whole youth craze. Just take a look in the mirror, guys! And be honest with yourself! Everyone gets old sometimes. At least if you're lucky!
